HOW TO KNOW LADIES THAT ARE NOT YET READY FOR MARRIAGE

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Maturity is the quality of thinking right and behaving in a sensible, adult manner. Maturity sometimes has nothing to do with age because age is just a number. It is possible to see a 40years old person behaving like a 12years old kid and vice versa. Finding a lady suitable for marriage always takes time and sometimes looks like a Herculean task.

No wonder the Bible says "whoso findeth a wife findeth a good thing and obtaineth favour from the Lord. So how can a man know if the lady that makes his heart leap for joy is ready or matured enough for marriage? Read carefully to find out.

1. When she is very proud.

Pride has always been a major reason why many ladies are still single till date. Of what good is marriage when the wife cannot be submissive to the husband?

Such a marriage will be full of chaos and with no time end up crashing. Whenever this trait is found in a lady, it is better for a man to excuse himself from her as this is a sign of immaturity and unsuitable for marriage. Such ladies are known for use and dump but not as house wives as men are scared of them.

2. When she is a make up freak .

We now live in a world of cosmetic and make-ups. Sometimes it is hard to recognize a lady after wearing makeup. A make up freak girl is full of surprises, you may end up being disappointed by the time you see the real face behind the make up.

This set of girls wouldn't step out without a make up kit in their bags because her life depends on it. The greatest mistake a man will make is to go into relationship with this mask wearing girls except you want to go bankrupt.

3. When she has no discretion.

"As a jewel of gold in a swine's snout, so is a fair woman which is without discretion".(proverbs 11:22). This kind of ladies do not have the power to take decision on their own, they often depend on friends, relatives etc all the time. This is a sign of immaturity and marrying this kind of ladies means all your family matters that are supposed to be handled within the family circle will be conveyed to outsiders for deliberation and scrutiny.

4. When she exhibit laziness.

Show me a lazy girl and I will show you a girl who does not love house chores. This kind of ladies often leave their houses dirty and the kitchen littered with unwashed plates as they will always complain of tiredness.

Any lady with this laziness syndrome may also deny her husband his marital right when they are in the other room trying to do mummy and daddy stuff. She will just slump on the bed like a log of wood. They are nothing but liabilities.

5. When she cannot cook and always prefer to eat out.

This kind of ladies do not know how to cook delicious meal and always prefer to eat out, as in going to eatery and she never make any attempt to improve. Such a lady should not think about marriage at all because you cannot expect your husband to cook when he returns from work, except when necessary like during pregnancy period and health issues. Just as no woman will like to settle down with a jobless and lazy man, so likewise no man will like to marry a lady who does not know how to prepare meals that will arouse his appetite. The way to a man's heart is his stomach.

If a man agrees to marry a lady who does not know how to cook out of love, it will eventually come to a point when love will not be able to satisfy the stomach and things will start to fall apart. Love can only be felt but cannot be eaten.

6. When she is always dirty and unkept.

This type of ladies are not bothered about looking good and smelling nice. They just live life like "if he loves me he will take me as I am". Hell No! Men are moved by what they see. If you cannot take proper care of your body in terms of personal hygiene then you are very far from marriage. You need to grow up.

7. When she gets angry easily and also disrespectful.

This set of ladies are ever ready to fight at any slightest disagreement. Marrying a lady with these two traits will be a total disaster because your home will frequently and automatically be tagged as a house of fury and a battle Creek.

Such ladies are not suitable for house wives as they lack the ability to handle family matters with maturity.

8. When she is a talkative.

Talkativeness breeds gossiping and talebearing. This kind of ladies will always creat avenues for quarrelling and fighting in the neighborhood. It will be very risky for a man to go ahead to make marital vows with these set of ladies except if the man is ready to handle the situation when it escalates.

9. When she has a very high taste.

This kind of ladies when asked to describe their dream man to marry, you will hear them say things like, I love men who are tall and handsome with six packs, rich and fair in complexion, bla bla bla!

They never focus on character but all they want is money and outward features. This is a sign of immaturity. Ladies like these often end up being single mothers or may be unmarried for life.

10. When she is always demanding.

It is a bad idea to marry this kind of ladies because they will always be liabilities instead of helpers. They don't have anything to offer apart from sex. The moment the man is broke, you'll see them disappear like vapour in the wind.

This type of ladies should not be taken seriously because they are mere golddiggers.

11. When she lives an extravagant lifestyle and also love partying.

This kind of ladies will never be satisfied with what is available due to the larvish lifestyle they are used to. They are so expensive that any man who wants to marry them may eventually go broke. Such ladies should be left alone to waste their lives with married men than to be taken to the altar.

12. When she does not love kids.

This kind of ladies prefer to play with Teddy beers to playing with kids. Such ladies should be left alone and avoided because they might end up being barren for life.

A would be wife should have love for kids because that's the primary purpose of marriage. This is also a sign of immaturity for marriage.

13. When she has no fear of God and does not like going to church.

This kind of ladies should be avoided at all cost because they can be diabolical. Marrying them would mean marrying madam Jezebel.

14. When she is stingy and does not know how to pray.

This kind of ladies can also be diabolical because a good wife always care about her husband by backing him up with prayers which in turn will make his way prosperous. A home without prayer is a home without power. If she is stingy, it may affect the progress of the husband and also breed misunderstanding among other family members that may come on visit. This is also a sign of immaturity for marriage.

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