SIGNS YOU ARE DATING THE RIGHT PERSON

Love is a beautiful thing when you are with the right person. Love can also be very evil and painful when you are with the wrong person, these 6 signs will help you evaluate your relationship:

1 They handle conflicts maturely

Conflicts are bound to rise in any relationship between two different people. But ask yourself this; How does your partner handle conflict that arises between you two? Do they call you names, gaslight you? Ridicule you? Or even physically abuse you? When you’re in any disagreement, a good partner shouldn't do anything to put you down or behave aggressively. They talk respectfully, calmly and openly.

2. They celebrate your successes

A good partner always look out for your achievements, they act as your support system and hypeman. They see your accomplishments as a great thing. They don't dismiss them or seek to make you feel bad when you're doing well. They also don’t behave as if they’re in competition with you. Even if they try to use competition as a tool for motivating you, they do it in a healthy manner. They always want you to be better and celebrate you when you hit a milestone. When you're happy, they're happy.

3. They make communication easy

A good partner always talk about everything Ann's anything. They talk about issues, themselves, their jobs, careers, dreams and aspirations. Ask yourself 'Does my partner know about my dreams?'. They allow you to be vulnerable and they don’t throw your vulnerabilities in your face or expose your deepest secrets. They listen when you speak not just to hear, but also to understand. They also encourage you to talk about yourself.

4. You spend time apart and have lives outside your relationship

They allow you to spend time with other important people in your life and they are not actively trying to compete for space because they trust you enough to let you live. Your life consists of a healthy balance of ‘us’ and ‘me’ time. They want you to have a social life outside of them, and don’t seek to control you. You feel like you’re given room to grow and spend time with others.

5. They are willing to compromise

A good partner is not selfish and self centered. They understand that your relationship doesn't revolve around them alone. They understand the meaning of a 'partnership' and that your needs matter too. When compromise may be required, they evaluate all options and not just the ones to suit them.

6. They are expressive and intentional about their feelings towards you

They regularly express their love and affection using their own and your own love language. They also try their best to love you how you like to be loved. As a result, you feel appreciated and treated like a priority, not taken for granted and treated like an option. They take time to understand what makes you blush and never come short of doing it.

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