🔞REASONS WHY YOU MUST HAVE SEX BEFORE MARRIAGE

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I will not waste your time on this and I will go straight to the point: you should absolutely have sex before you get married!

I know, many of you will come with your righteous indignations and tell me how the bible frowns at pre-marital sex, fornication and all the blab la bla, but let me tell you something, if you’re not a virgin, save yourself the holier than thou gospel, it will not change anything. And if you feel strongly against sex before marriage because of moral or religious beliefs, I respect that.

Now that we have gotten that out of the way, shall we get into the meat of this particular matter?

There are so many reasons why it is important to have sex before marriage and I will be sharing just a few of them with you here today. As I said earlier, I respect it if this is against your beliefs, but I will share reasons why you should absolutely have sex with the person you are going to get married to before your wedding.

While sex can truly blur the lines and make you think you’re in love when it’s actually the good sex that you are enjoying, it is pertinent to note that having sexual relations with the person you are to marry is not only a way to connect and bond, it also forms a part of getting to know what the other person is made up of because trust me, sex is really very important in marriage.

Here are the 5 reasons why you should absolutely have sex before marriage:

Sexual compatibility

One of the things you want in a marriage is sexual compatibility. You don’t want to be married to someone who is not sexually compatible with you, as that could lead to cheating or even a divorce. Does your spouse have the same sexual energy as you? Does s/he feel the same way toward sex? These are questions that can only and should be asked and answered before marriage. How can you answer these questions before marriage? You know how.

Bonding

It is a simple fact, sex builds bonds. You want to have a bond with the person you will spend the rest of your life with. You don’t want to go into marriage wondering why you do not have any kind of bond with the person you are marrying. Agreed, sex is not the only way to build bonds between a man and a woman, but I believe everyone reading this know how much you can bond with someone you’re having sex with.

Pleasure

One reason to have sex before marriage is pleasure. Deny it all you want, but you know how pleasurable sex can be when you do it right and doing it with the person you are going to marry can make it even more pleasurable. This part can also build up the love you have for each other and thast is very important for having a very lovely marriage. You should know that marriage is a very serious business that must be taken as seriously as that. Let me hear what you think.

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